When conquering on Candlelit Sanctum with Rek'sai Void Burrower, can you order triggers so Candlelit resolves first, see those cards, then decide whether to exhaust Rek'sai?

Ruling: Yes, you can order the triggers so Candlelit Sanctum resolves first (chain link 2), see those cards, and then decide whether to exhaust Rek'sai when her trigger resolves (chain link 1).

Sequence:

• Both triggers go on the chain when you conquer
• Order them with Rek'sai as chain link 1 and Candlelit as chain link 2
• Candlelit resolves first, revealing the cards
• Rek'sai's trigger resolves, and you decide whether to exhaust her at resolution

Nuances:

• The "you may exhaust me" decision is made on resolution of the trigger, not when putting it on the chain
• The trigger always goes on the chain regardless of whether you will exhaust Rek'sai
• "You may do [x] to [y]" is always decided on resolution